Pervent Persons from jumping

Important info

One way that I have known that can be done where we can 
do our best to pervent one from jumping in ending theier lives.
 - Do note Even as we do our part in truly listen to the person that 
is attempting to jump -There are times that he or she is not truly 
listening to us as we talk with them in a caring understanding honest 
manor -That shows that the person be that being a he or she is 
determined to jump- So even if that happens do not think that you 
said or did a thing wrong but never give up on them , on trying , do
 not give up on yourself,your loved ones , true friends,others.

Normally the persons that intend to jump canspot fakers....
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1.In every part of listening , responding , talking with the person you must remain 
Calm , Rashinal caring understanding , honest, sympothetic even in a vocal manor

2. carfully approch them slowly as you ask them in a honest caring 
symothetic understanding tone of voice of why they want to jump 
, ending their life.

3. Truly honestly listen to them in everything they say in response .

4. If they say to not come any closer respect that , stand
 in one place as you talk with them - Never Talk to them 
-Its better to talk with them...

5. Respond in a caring honest sympothtic understanding tone of voice

6.As you see that they are listening , responding with you as you 
both talk with each other you can take very small steps towards them 
that they will not notice.

7.If they see you are a getting closer even with the small steps they may 
yell it by saying do not come any closer ,- With that you should step back 
one little step but still talk with them , listen to them.

8. Never physically grab hold them to get them back off the ledge 
even as you talk with them unless they are trully willing to allow you to do 
so but if you do that as they allow you to do it -Do that in a most gental caring careful way 
, manor.

9. You can caringly , honestly truthfully tell them about the positive things that
 they will miss , who will miss them even if they do not see it themselves at that 
point of time in that duration 
- But know that they will eventually the more that you caringly 
, honestly listen to 
them , talk with them.

10.Be truly ready to answer their questions in an honest caring vocal way,manor.

11.There will be some that may not truly fully listen to you 
, what you are saying to them in a caring honest true manor 
vocally -And there are some that will be truly listening to you
 even with the thought of jumping - Always be prepaired for 
the ones that do , do not truly listen to you as you talk with them 
, listen to them.-- Always be prepaired for thos that actually jump 
& For those that want your help in getting them off the ledge of 
where they can go at where they can walk with you to safe grounds.

Do Note: If persons do jump try not to feel as you failed them 
, others, yourself , if need be go see a phycologist or therapist
 to emotionally , phylogically help you through it all as you gradually 
rebuild yourself with in yourself emotionally, mentally / with in mind 
, thought ,phylogically.

And if the person did not jump , still is around help him or her through it
 , help them in help through sources like Suicied Prevention , to see a 
therapist , psychologist , psychiatrist  with that never leave their side
 , keep supporting them emotionally as a friend even as they go 
through the sessions 

Never take advantage of them in any way , for any reason no matter what.